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Share Some Magic

Postby JohnFitzgerald » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 1]

One of my family members took his own life two days ago. The last time my daughter was around him, he showed her a lot of tricks with his prized yo-yo. She called them magic tricks and when she said that, he gave it to her. I have not had the heart to tell her.

Share some magic with your loved ones this Holiday Season!

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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby ElkNut1 » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 2]

John, wow, really sorry to hear this. Great point too, thanks!

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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby WapitiTalk1 » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 3]

Sorry to hear about your family loss John.. sad business. It's nice your daughter has some pretty cool memories of him though. Will keep your family in my prayers through these challenging times.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby elkmtngear » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 4]

John that is truly sad news. So sorry for your loss.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby Swede » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 5]

John, I am saddened to hear about your friend. It is especially difficult to consider how empty and hopeless his life must have felt.

Life is short. If you are not enjoying it, find a friend to talk to.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby >>>---WW----> » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 6]

Please accept my deepest sympathy for you families loss.
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Postby ORelksniper » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 7]

John, I'm sorry for your family's loss. My prayers are with you all.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby cnelk » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 8]

John
Sorry to hear this.

You are correct in sharing magic.
Without going into too much detail, Right now we are at the Colorado UniveristyHospital in Denver, in the oncology center.
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Postby pointysticks » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 9]

Sorry :(
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Postby bnsafe » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 10]

gosh guys im sorry to hear about all this.
that's a tough deal john, thanks for the reminder, its so easy to get caught up in all the running an stuff you think you have to get done.
brad if you need anything shoot me a text.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby Elkduds » 12 18, 2013 •  [Post 11]

John, reaching out by saying something when you are struggling is a special kind of strength.

Suicide is the worst kind of loss. It is regular and expected that surviving relatives and friends feel a terrible mix of emotions. Grief morphs into unfathomable, unjustified guilt for many. The aftermath is a vital time to check on each other, be open about suffering, and get help for those who are overwhelmed. There is a helping organization to consider: Heartbeat heartbeatsurvivorsaftersuicide.org.

If you know or suspect someone is struggling with thoughts of suicide, this toll-free call can save a life: 1-800-273-8255, the national suicide crisis line. The internet has local and other resources for prevention and intervention of suicide.

Physicians, nurses, teachers, coaches, 1st responders often have special training in recognizing and helping with thoughts of suicide.

To get help when help is needed, requires strength. I am impressed that you possess that strength. I am rooting for you and yours in this difficult, awful time. It DOES get better.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby ishy » 12 19, 2013 •  [Post 12]

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby Mojostylee24 » 12 19, 2013 •  [Post 13]

I pray that God blesses you and your family with even a tiny bit of peace this holiday season. My father took his own life last x-mas and it has been a tough year to say the least but the pain will fade and make room for fond memories and smiles eventually.

Best Wishes,

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Postby twinkieman » 12 19, 2013 •  [Post 14]

John, I am very sad for your loss, especially in the way it happened. My cousin took his own life 24 years ago, and still eats at me today. Great message on sharing some "magic".
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Re: Share Some Magic

Postby otcWill » 12 20, 2013 •  [Post 15]

Prayers to you and yours.
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Postby Mikeha33 » 12 20, 2013 •  [Post 16]

John, I'm horribly sorry to hear that. I had a family member do the same about 2 months ago. Lots of questions that will never be answered.

Brad, I hope for the best for whoever you are with up there. That is a scary, scary place to have to be, especially if the results are not in yet.

I'll keep both of you and your families in my thoughts, especially over the holidays. God bless.
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